A song about memory loss or false memories or the lack of memories. It’s about how little we actually remember from our past and how much of it is just something we’ve made up to make ourselves feel better, or sometimes worse. Sometimes repressing the past can be a good thing, if the truth is too much to handle.
lyrics
Things You Can't Remember
Verse 1
I once heard it said that we make up our own lives
Wives make up their husbands, husbands make up their wives
Everything's a story if you're brave enough
Put your money in the bank with interests trying to save it up
Rose-tinted storytelling is our worst addiction
You know the best day of your life is mostly fiction
A version of reality you make up to make life more comfortable
Living off a lie, you never thought was possible
Chorus
A memory loss is everything to us
Those times can never last forever
We all suffer from Amnesia
to trick your mind or to please you
You spare yourself from things you can't remember
Verse 2
Some time ago I read that you forget most of your memories
Then enemies turn into friends and friends make up their enemies
Repression is a necessary tool if you want to lead a healthy life
And your past will catch up on you if you open up your eyes
Your memory is filled with scars, but the first cut is the deepest
Life's full of endless stories, yet you always choose the cheapest
Your own life is a tale, no longer that relatable
Conceited, but not completed; a brain once so impenetratable*
Bridge (spoken)
The things you can't remember
are often things you should forget
And thoughts that will last forever
probably haven't happened yet
And suppression is a necessary tool
Hold it to yourself so dearly
Remember: It's yourself you fool
when you remember things so clearly
Last Chorus
A memory loss is there for a cause
Those times can be lost forever
We all suffer from Amnesia
to confuse or appease you
You spare yourself from things you can't remember
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